SEPT 25-27, 2026 · EAST BAY, CA

SLUTCON ?
slut /slʌt/
noun
1. a promiscuous person (archaic, derogatory) 2. Someone who embraces their sexual self without shame. About owning who you are, what you want, and how you connect.

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Three Session Tracks

Sessions are designed for three experience levels. Wherever you are, there is a track for you.

Starting Out

No idea what's going on? Bad with ladies? Want basic practice? This track assumes nothing.

  • Flirting fundamentals
  • Low-stakes practice rounds
  • Approaching without panicking
  • Zero assumed experience

Leveling Up

You know your way around and you've got some experience - now you want to get a lot better.

  • Sharpening conversation and escalation
  • Practice with real-time feedback
  • Calibration and timing
  • Fixing your sticking points

Gain Mastery

You're sexually fluent but looking for the finishing touch. Get the niche knowledge and rare feedback required for true expertise.

  • Rapid-iteration practice reps
  • Detailed feedback from flirt partners
  • Advanced reads and edge cases
  • Live analysis of what you're doing

The People

Speakers, coaches, educators, and designated flirt partners.

Aella

Aella

Organizer & sex researcher
CJ TheX

CJ TheX

Philosopher & video essayist
Nicholas

Nicholas

Dating coach, Fullyknown
Chesed

Chesed

Co-organizer, SlutStack
Gretta

Gretta

Therapist & orgy organizer

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Sample Schedule

We’re still locking stuff in, but it should look something like this.
There’s three total days, this is just an example for one day!

All tiers Ace & up
Track 1 Track 2 Track 3 Track 4 Track 5
9 AM Breakfast
10 AM
Switching: The Ultimate Solution for Anxiety
Saint Nightmare
Rizz Under Uncertainty
Gretta Duleba
Erotic Hypnosis
Physical Aggression
Nick Grant
Men’s Circle
11 AM
Men’s Fashion + Live Outfit Feedback
Sock Wrestling
Diagnosing your Dead Bedroom
Chesed
Small Group Flirt Coaching
Nick Grant
Erotic E-Stim
12 PM Lunch
1 PM
All the Way On: Full vulvar & uterine arousal
Getting Huge: Building muscle for health & hotness
An Expert’s Guide to Eating Out Women
Talking Women Wet
Nick Grant
Restraint with Restraint: Hold someone down safely
2 PM
Live Nude Girls: Q&A with OF stars & cam girls
Sex Toys and The Single Man
TBA
Intro to Anal Play for Men
Small Group Flirt Coaching
Nick Grant
Men’s Circle
3 PM
Why Flirting Works
Honoring the Capacity for Violence and Harm
Saint Nightmare
Intro to Rope Bondage
Physical Escalation
Nick Grant
You’re Unhinged: Dating profile optimization
Alice Little
4 PM
Big Kink: My Favorite Findings
Aella
How to Have Sex with Me
assorted Flirt Girls
The Art of Wingmanning
5 PM
The Fuckboy Within: Shame, Ethics & Responsibility
Nick Grant
Flirting for the Submissive Man
How to Pick Up Girls, Literally
Fingering & Foreplay
Alice Little
Men’s Circle
6 PM Dinner
7 PM
Fucking Women
CJ the X
Instill: Bondage Meditation
TBA
Grow Confident Through Dance
A’lan Abruzzo
Massage: Theory & Practice
Spanking: Theory & Practice
8 PM
Late-night party
dance floor & hot tub
Naked Circling
Massage: Theory & Practice
Grow Confident Through Dance
A’lan Abruzzo
Hairbraiding 101
9 PM
Late-night party
dance floor & hot tub
Instill: Bondage Meditation
TBA
Spanking: Theory & Practice
Slumber Party Games
Massage: Theory & Practice

Reviews

“It would feel incredibly melodramatic to say SlutCon healed me - but that is how it felt. I’ve been wandering through a desert for a long time and finally I have gotten to drink deep of abundance.”
—Aaron, attendee

The group dance class. God, that fucking dance class. If you’ve ever taken a group class for dance, imagine that instead of trying to translate visual stimuli from the instructors into complex bodily contortions you’re instead, for two minutes at a time, given a new girl to try and connect with. Talking is discouraged but you can do so much with your eyes and bodily presence. It was crowded. Too crowded. Didn’t matter, not really. It’s obvious why dance classes in the wider world don’t operate in this way but you can see utopia, from here.

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“To me, SlutCon felt like a celebration of being human. More specifically, it was a celebration of people’s inherent goodness. The operating premise seemed to be: sex is good, humans are good, desire is good.”
—VortexGoddess, flirt girl

The biggest impact on my daily life? I’m having better sex with my husband. The mindset of “I’m cheering for them and want them to win” erases any previous antagonism in our sexual dynamic. I used to feel annoyed and frustrated that he’s not reading my mind perfectly, but now that seems to have dissipated. SlutCon helped me undo that and relate to my husband in a much more collaborative way.

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“I thought I wanted titties and beautiful women but realized later that what I actually wanted was to be and be treated as someone worth knowing.”
—Anonymous attendee
“I like your sexual desire. I like that you put it out there between us. I like that you cast aside the false security of emanating want at me, without putting the want out in the open and risking a no. And now that it’s out there, I can say yes, too.”
—Scy, flirt girl

I never once told a man I found him too forward. The most common thing I said boiled down to: I like that you put your desire out in the open and risked a no. And now that it’s out there, I can say yes, too.

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Press

Slate The Exclusive California Retreat Where Men Pay to Learn How to Have Sex With Women SF Standard At the Inaugural SlutCon, ‘Flirt Girls’ Teach Tech Guys How to Woo Women

Blogs & writeups

VortexGoddess SlutCon: A Celebration of Inherent Goodness Michael A Farewell to Barns Nintil SlutCon Notes Cynablog SlutCon Day 1: Arriving at the Edge Scy SlutCon Noelle Perdue Notes on Feeling Like a Failure at SlutCon

Get Your Ticket

200+ attended Slutcon 2025.
All tickets include 3 days of programming, meals, and snacks.

Wildcard

$3,000

3 tickets left

  • Attend expert talks and panels
  • Participate in interactive workshops
  • Practice flirting with live feedback
  • Enjoy access to late night parties featuring dance, massage, and frolicking flirt practice
Get Wildcard

Ace

$6,000

9 tickets left

  • Attend expert talks and panels with priority access to Q&A
  • Priority sign-up for workshops with limited space
  • Access to spicier educational sessions
  • Personalized small group coaching
  • Practice flirting with live feedback
  • Enjoy access to late night parties featuring dance, massage, and frolicking flirt practice
Get Ace

Jackpot

$18,000

Get Jackpot
  • Relax in VIP space with our presenters, organizers and flirt girls
  • Premium accommodations included
  • Personal concierge to optimize your SlutCon experience
  • Attend expert talks and panels with highest priority access to Q&A
  • Personalized 1:1 coaching and feedback
  • First priority sign-up for workshops with limited space
  • Priority access and participation in spicier educational sessions
  • Practice flirting with live feedback
  • Enjoy access to late night parties featuring dance, massage, and frolicking flirt practice
  • Also you're helping fund a passion project and we appreciate you
★ Wildcard ♠ Ace ♛ Jackpot
Expert talks & panels ✓ ✓ + priority Q&A ✓ + highest priority
Interactive workshops ✓ ✓ Priority sign-up ✓ First priority
Spicier educational sessions - ✓ ✓ Priority access
Small group coaching - ✓ ✓
1:1 coaching & feedback - - ✓
Practice flirting with live feedback ✓ ✓ ✓
Late night parties ✓ ✓ ✓
VIP space with presenters & flirt girls - - ✓
Premium accommodations - - ✓
Personal concierge - - ✓

Questions & Answers

There'll be no sex facilitated by the event. We're pro sex, and would love if it happened organically, but there will be absolutely no sex in exchange for your ticket purchase. Slutcon will give you plenty of info on how to throw an orgy, but Slutcon itself is not an orgy, and we do not allow penetration in public spaces. For some opt-in workshops you may see nudity or demonstrations of specific sexual techniques, and you may also sometimes touch (clothed) women, but these are strictly for educational purposes.
Pickup artistry is mostly antagonistic towards women - you learn a script to get her to do something she would not otherwise. While there are still some things to learn from PUA, we believe a more effective and long-lasting strategy is to work collaboratively with women, and to get laid with women who genuinely want to get laid with you. If you inspire true horniness within her, everyone wins!
We’re condensing 2025’s three ticket tiers into two! The Wildcard ticket is great if you’re looking for a more observational experience. Learn from talks, attend large group workshops, practice flirting. If you want a more intense experience, then Ace might be right for you. The Ace tier allows access to smaller, more hands-on experiences, more direct feedback, and faster iteration and practice. Think of Wildcard as an immersive conference for practicing skills, and Ace as a getting-messy workshop intensive.

If you’re thinking ‘fuckit, balls to the wall’ - then Jackpot’s your track. We allow only a few Jackpot slots, because they’re quite involved! You’ll get a personalized, one-on-one experience where we focus on your specific needs and how Slutcon can best help you, specifically.
We approach seduction and sex with a simple philosophy: if fun seduction and good sex happens, both men and women benefit. Evolution trained us for a more antagonistic environment than we're in now. Making sex good is a practical problem - nobody is "at fault." We're compassionate to both men and women, who face different hurdles. We're not here to point fingers, we're here to figure out solutions.
We provide snacks all day, lunch and dinner, and light breakfast. The venue is walking distance from restaurants. Food is included in your ticket. The venue also has rooms available to rent - book through your ticket confirmation email.
The spirit of slut lives in all, regardless of experience or relationship status. This event is best if you come with openness, willingness to be a little brave, and an earnest desire to explore. There's useful stuff here for people of all levels. Couples are especially welcome - much of our education helps relationships reignite the spark.
All genders and gender identities are welcome! This event leans heteronormative in that many sessions focus on classic dynamics between men and women, however anyone is welcome to attend.
Our all-female organizing team came together out of love of sex, fondness for men, and sisterhood with women. We count among us PhDs, stay-at-home mothers, sex workers, and writers.
Full refund if you cancel by July 27
50% refund by August 26
25% refund by September 11
No refunds after September 11
We sold out last year and don't expect there to be upgrade space. However you can enter a waitlist for an upgrade option at the event if someone of a higher tier drops out last minute.
Last year was our first year, and we've learned a lot! Primary changes for 2026 involve:

• Working more carefully with presenters beforehand for better-quality presentations
• Way more flirt girls, with many of them trained by our staff beforehand
• Simplifying the entry to workshops
• More workshops, and repeating popular small-group workshops
• Advance reservation for more in-demand sessions